Now many would argue tat Foundations are developed over a period of time with new relations just like the foundation of marriage. However my argument is different to these other relationships.
These other relationships are developed after you have grown up & already have the sense of the outside world. You develop these other relationships after watching your parents first.
When you start coming to senses while growing up, your eyes first open, to seeing them – Their relationship with each other, their interactions, their values wit each other & their beliefs. These grounded factors very naturally becomes your A B C’s of for any future relations – as you grow.
You base a lot of your school relationships, college and work relationships – based on what you have learnt at home from your parents. What they have taught you about relationships and interactions.
However, now lets see a different side of the world for those who grow up without this wall & their very step around them doesn’t really exist. They haven’t seen ‘Parent’s per se..nor have had the liberty to see a ‘mother’ & ‘father’ interact.
Its just a different ball game for them all together. They are left open to make their own values & beliefs & value system for relationships. They either learn by watching their friends parents or those other random family members & acquaintances.
They become a mix breed for a lot of things. Watching, observing, picking bits & pieces from here & there to build up their own customized frame to be followed.
They can be ‘hopefully’ free spirited or liberal minded. They get a lot of diversity if they put their mind to it. They have the freedom to pick & choose what seems right for most people & then try & amalgamate in their life to see what suits them the best & how well it works for them.
Their experiences can be vast..their ways of looking things wit more options than others. It’s just a different world…for a lot of people out there.
It’s Growing Up Differently…