Guess, this one is going to be straight away blunt…And it starts off with an equally blunt question…
“How dangerous can physical wants get, when it gets out of hand?”
“Do people really go ahead and are ready to do anything to get that built up negative aggression out of their body, without having to think about any implications?”
The causes for brain waves to send out these signals can be many – coming out of a broken or abusive relationship or marriage.
Some people may use this as an ‘addictive’ sense of calming down thus making one may just feel that they feel super energized after it.
The physical wants triggered through hormones does satisfy the body’s needs – what about that spiritual satisfaction? Isn’t that important to us anymore, in today’s times?
Our bodies are mortals – our souls are not – is something that I have also been led to believe, through education, society, culture and religion. We make relationships not seeing how beautiful or attractive the body of the opposite soul is.
Yea, probably there are some people out there whose brains are focused ‘only and only’ in their physical needs so their graph would tend to differ a lot from those of others.
A paragraph in Mickey Nivelli’s book “Together Forever – An Eternal Love Story” – a book about the Love of Sunil Dutt and Nargis Dutt states:
“Distortions in love happen when people pursue effortless, instant gratifications. The physically fulfilled but spiritually starved people live hollow and shallow lives. Human beings are not just flesh, blood and bones. Myopic visions imprison us in prisons of short term, physical wants.”
How true is that! How far can you just go ahead and only satisfy those physical wants? What happens when you are done and content with what you have (physically) – but still feel that empty space of missing some kind of spiritual connections?
Have you had relationships – wherein they just have turned out to surprise you? Some of these relationships are sudden, out of the blue and just a ‘perfect match’ for you – not only physically but also “spiritually’. They are your match as per your personality and more so are called and defined a match because they are able to reciprocate to how you feel. They are able to reciprocate, as they understand how you function and they are comfortable with what you believe and live as.
It’s rare to find such close matches. I have been lucky to find these kinds of connections in my friends. Some people only look for these matches in their life partners; however these kinds of matches are all around us – in most of the relationship we make through the cycle of life.
These people will make you feel. They will be there in your thoughts all along in the day. You will want to tell them every other passing thought in your mind and there would be nothing that they would have missed to know about you.
Do you have these in your life – ‘the soulful and then physical match’?